Sunday, October 19, 2008

Is Relationship Healthy?

Since the first time man was created, God knows that human can not live alone. He needed a friend who could accompany him in the Eden. He also needed someone who could support him in this world. That is why God created Eve as a supporting partner for human to share their joy and sorrow. Believe it or not, this law still exists until now. If we take a look at our environment, all of the people are connected one by one. They are all having someone in life, no matter who they are. Can you imagine living without anybody by your side?

We are not an individual person. We need others to help us, to support us and to be our friend. Nobody wants to be lonely in this world. Everybody wants to have someone in their life, someone who could share their joys and sorrows together with indivisible, someone who could response to him whenever he asks for something and someone who could stand beside him through every happiness and pain. This is life.

How to make them stand beside us if we do not have anything connected to them? Relationship is the key. We need a relationship to keep up with them and to be connected to them. Husband has wife, grandfather has grandmother, and uncle has aunt. We are created to be together, not to be individual.

Relationship is a simple word with a great power. Human needs relationship to keep them alive. Alive here is not about having a spirit to live, but alive in the meaning of “on”. You know, like the lamp, you must push the “on” button to make it works. It is like you. When you have relationship, no matter how bad it is, you are still connected to the electricity, this makes you “on”. When you are not connected to anything, there is no electricity in your life, you become “off”

My friend said that we need to share with others to be healthy. When we have joy, we share it to others to make them happy too and make ourselves relieve because we share happiness. When we have sorrow, we share it too. It will reduce our burden and release the pain. Keeping the pain in our heart and not sharing it to others will affect our health.

Human can not stop talking, no matter what the topic is. Whether it is about him or others, they will talk. Can you imagine if each of us talks with ourselves all day long? We all could be out of our mind. It is not good to be alone. We need someone else in life. No matter for good or bad, we need them to accompany us. This is why relationship is important and healthy for us.


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